Catch and Release: The Scrapbook Guy

Catch and Release: The Scrapbook Guy

One of my good friends and I were talking one night, years into our single days. Conversation turned to one of our inevitable conversations—our dating escapades. This topic usually included lots of laughter, an occasional tear or two, a few sighs sprinkled here and...

The Complexity of Cheating: Part 3 of 4

I have spoken to hundreds of people who have cheated, been cheated on or have been the person who a person cheated with. Some have been all three at some point. I’ve always thought it crucial to really hear the thoughts and experiences behind the stats….so I ask. And...
Cheating: Part 1 of 4

Cheating: Part 1 of 4

Cheating Series I remember the first time I was exposed to cheating. I was in middle school and went with my parents to visit my sister in college. We took her out to brunch at a great restaurant. As we sat down I saw my mother recognize a man sitting at the bar. She...
The Art, Science and Dance of the G Spot

The Art, Science and Dance of the G Spot

The Art, Science and Dance of the G Spot I was going to publish my first article in the series of cheating today but had multiple people write me privately and then had an impromptu interview as an expert for an article over the topic of the g spot so I decided the...
A Letter to my 70 Year Old Self

A Letter to my 70 Year Old Self

A Letter to My 70-Year-Old Self I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how the choices in my 20’s and 30’s have led me to where I land now in my 40’s. I work with my clients on handling the intended and unintended consequences of choices. Today I spent almost a half...