Finding Sexy

Finding Sexy

I am sitting in a large ballroom near the end of a grand banquet table within a gorgeous chateau in the French countryside. I’m pinching myself because this isn’t the start to some scintillating fantasy. I’m actually here. And I made it happen. Through tears and fears...
Surrender and Vulnerability

Surrender and Vulnerability

As I’ve been working on my new e-course and book on desire/libido, two words keep reappearing: vulnerability and surrender. When I say these words to women, the reaction is often physical… visceral. I can actually see the recoil, the grimace, the eye rolling. I have...
Finding YOUR Sexy

Finding YOUR Sexy

(DISNEY VIDEO) Okay so let’s just get the obvious out of the way…..my hair, that outfit, the hyena laugh, you didn’t know I acted in a former life. Yep. On all of those! My brother in law says he has nightmares about that one note I hit halfway through the commercial....
Sexuality in the workplace

Sexuality in the workplace

I am preparing for a webinar this week and my topic is how sexual agency shows up in our workplace. At first glance, it may seem unrelated but it isn’t. Our sexuality and our sexual agency is with us in every context, every minute, every relationship. I’ve also been...