One of the most common questions I get asked in my sessions and workshops is about what a ‘normal’ level of desire is. Women want to know how they line up, how to make it better after a significant life change (after kids, a trauma, an illness, menopause). Partners want to know how to ‘help’ their loved one ‘get their desire back’. The worst part is that it’s almost always asked in hushed, embarrassed tones. And if there’s one thing I feel strongly about it’s liberating women in this realm. There is nothing to be ashamed of about this topic.

Women are ready—nay, hungry—to have their desire be validated. And I want to help make that happen; I want to give women the permission to unabashedly explore their desire, however they define it.